Howdy,
I am way to young to know what real love is for a man and I know I have yet to feel that, I love my dad and I try not to hurt him by doing stuff bad that will make him sad or disappionted in me and I believe this is what real love is caring enough about a person that you don't want to hurt him in any way that you would give just about everything just to have him happy with you and love you back. love is were if a bad guy held a gun to your head and said that one person had to die that you would say "let him or her go I will die." Love for a friend can have some of the same effect but yet not I would at this time give my life if it meant that one of my closest friends would live long enough to get married and have kids, Now don't get me wrong if someone point a gun at my enemies head I am human and I would say "Let him DIE!!!" anyways unto the rest of my thought pattern. In the world today it is expected of you to go on dates and after a very short time say the three words "I love you" but most generally they don't love in the right sense they mean to say three other words "I like you.' It is very common that after a guy says this to you that you are expected to have a thing I like to call interaction(not always the case) in the end the guy dumps you and what are you left with? Not much! it's kinda like eating your favorite kind of pie you fall for a guy then the above process happens a small chunk of your heart is missing or feels like it is missing and slowly like a pie being eaten your heart is chipped away. Then when you find the real guy you are going to spend your life with comes and all that is left of the pie is a few crumbs and a tiny little bit of filling. so I am here by declaring that my pie is going to be saved for my knight in shining armor or if he is late in coming my knight in rusty armor!
Y'all this was not going to be about love but my brain went crazy and all this popped into my head like a balloon that gets to close to a fan!!!!
I sure hope you all save your pie for your main man. *maybe it's lemon pie* thinks to herself as she heads for the publish button
“Remember me and smile, for it's better to forget than remember me and cry.”
Jammin'
love my things
- letters,
- a full moon,
- ,stars that form a camel
- funny jokes,
- a really good story,
- a cow that is cewing her cud,
- hay wagon dances,
- kick the can,
- campfires,
- dancing with the guy you like,
- going to a fancy dance all dressed up,
- smell of fresh mowed hay,
- homemade Ice Cream,
- strawberries
- water,
- a garden that is weeded,
- some flowers,
- Lemon bars
- fruit juice
- Brad Paisley
- smooth legs,
- Not caring what others think about the way I act,
- screaming at the top of your lungs,
- gummy worms
- fluffy cat's that sit on your lap,
- inside jokes
- Summer dresses
- Muscles on men! :p
- sunshine,
- long walks,
- smiles,
- having friends you know care,
- Acting dumb,
- taking pictures,
- Knowing I am God's child,
- seeing the guy you like look at you,
- chocolate cookies that are soft and chewy,
- baking soda,
- Punch in a pot,
- dressing up as a pirate,
- Spoons the game,
- warm bed on a cold night,
- being able to tell were the hot guys came from,
- virgina reel,
- fiddle songs that make you want to dance,
- new CD's,
- stars,
- hearing a morning dove in the early morning,
- Hotfudge sundays on a summer day,
- e-mails,
- stories that get way out of hand,
- Singing at the top of your lungs when no one is home,
- Laughing so hard you can't breath,
- sound of rain on a tin roof,
- Homemade mac in cheese,
- Good books,
- hot cocoa,
- chick flicks,
- tacos,
- soft pillows,
- long hair,
- sleep overs,
- green grass,
8 comments:
Very Well Said, as a person who has just a small slice left, and who wants to wait until I find the right one, afraid to say I love you ever again, and never a big fan of dating, I could not agree more, and lemon pie rocks...
Hey baby! I agree w/ you. But not w/ the pie analogy. I know you know what I think already so I won't say it all over again!! Love you so much. See you Thursday. I can't believe it's the concert already.
-Norah
so Norah are you saying that you believe you should go out on dates and give your self to that guy fully before you get married? Because that is what my pie analogy is about!
heck no, I just don't agree w/ that analogy. I mean, in that... er, situation, it certainly does apply, but too many people have told me that even having a crush on a guy would be giving away a piece of you so-called pie. So would you say that since you have quite a bad crush currently on a guy that I will not name, that suddenly half of your lemon pie is gone, never to return? How in the heck could you say that? Just because you might have been really interested in a dude or maybe even had a guy tell you so, and had something more than a friendship (NOT going 'all the way' mind you), does that mean that once to get married all you have to give is a little bit of your heart? How would that make you unable to love your husband? Like I said, I agree w/ everything you said, just not the analogy.
Never once in the whole post did I say that if you had a crush that was taking your pie away I said the following:
It is very common that after a guy says this to you that you are expected to have a thing I like to call interaction(not always the case) in the end the guy dumps you and what are you left with? Not much! it's kinda like eating your favorite kind of pie you fall for a guy then the above process happens a small chunk of your heart is missing or feels like it is missing and slowly like a pie being eaten your heart is chipped away. Then when you find the real guy you are going to spend your life with comes and all that is left of the pie is a few crumbs and a tiny little bit of filling.
from this you say you don't agree with my analogy well go ahead and go all the way. that is what the whole post was talking about nothing about crushes.
I never once said that it would make it so you could not love your husband after doing it who wants a crumb of a pie? not me!
I know you didn't... and I specifically said "I agree w/ everything you said, just not the analogy." I agree with you! I just don't like the analogy! For instance, if you did go all the way and then got married later in life... you'd obviously have realized that you made a heck of a mistake. That doesn't mean that you only have crumbs to give your husband though. You just went against God, probably when you were an unbeliever, and made a very mad mistake. I'm not condoling it.
I like the pie analogy because, it is the newness of trust you have before you give away a little slice of yourself, it is the not being afraid to trust, not being afraid to get involved, the ability to take the risks involved with the heart, after you give away a few slices, while the rest of the pie may be even more delicious, you are afraid to let your heart out again so easy, I know I am afraid to get hurt again, even I may care a great deal about someone, it will be a long time before I am comfortable really loving them with all my heart again, there will be that fear in me, that only time hopefully can heal, i have tried everything else. You miss opportunities by letting them go, when if you weren't scared, you would let them know how you really feel...
Well all I can say is that the pie analogy does work. Just like the candy bar ananlogy or the paper heart being chopped with each relationship analogy.
I know that you agree w/ the whole concept Norah, But just having a crush on a guy does not scar you. A few years later you even look back and ask yourself why you even liked that dude. But a (not lasting) relationship is painful. Even if you don't go "all the way" it still hurts. You may have just kissed once or twice or maybe not at all! Just the fact that he "was yours" and now he doesn't "love" you anymore hurts. It scars you for a long time. You look back and regret what you did. But I think you get the point!
P.S and an apple sounds great!!
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